Today, October 15th, represents the Official Day of Remembrance within a month of Infant & Pregnancy Loss Awareness. This month allows those of us who have experienced the gut-wrenching pain of loss to come together in support and community.

If this month has personal meaning and experience for you, you are on my heart. I pray for your peace and comfort.

This month also provides communication and sharing to help friends and loved ones who haven’t had this experience to gain a bit of understanding.

For those of you who have never experienced pregnancy loss or infant loss and don’t know what to do to help, please light a candle today – text, email, or re-post this candle picture to show your support and care.

We don’t expect you to completely understand our grief.

We don’t expect you to have the answers.

We don’t expect you to fix our confusion.

We just want to know you care.

Please light a candle and help us feel a little less alone.